The EKC Blog
Sharing resources, information, and third-culture-minded perspectives for parents, kids, and teens.
Dear EKC: Is My Kid’s Summer Screentime Trash or Tool?
If screen time negotiations have become the bane of your summer, you’re in good company. This week’s Dear EKC looks at reasonable routines and limits.
You’re Not Alone: Growing Together Through Family Transitions
Family changes bring a ton of emotions: grief, guilt, joy, and excitement can all coexist. Accepting all feelings and supporting each other leads to growth.
Dear EKC: Is My New “Healthy Routine” Too Much?
At what point does creating healthy habits turn into obsession? This week’s Dear EKC reader is finding it hard to balance life with her diet and exercise goals
“I keep thinking bad things”: What are intrusive thoughts?
What are intrusive thoughts? Discussing how intrusive thoughts appear in children, where they come from, and exploring ways to manage these thoughts in our daily lives.
Dear EKC: Am I Doing Enough?
Having a hard time enjoying summer? You’re not alone: a lot of TCKs get stuck on the productivity treadmill. Kate Berger has some advice in this Dear EKC. ← SEO, change description
EKC Roundtable: Social Pressures, Expectations, and Identity
Why is identity often such a complicated topic for TCKs? This week, our ECK therapists talk about social pressure, belonging, and figuring out who you are.
Dear EKC: How Do I Handle Changes to My Routine?
This week’s Dear EKC reader is feeling frustrated about deviations in their routine and needs help learning to handle the unexpected. Maayan Cohen responds.
Back to step one? Is therapeutic progress linear?
Back to step one? Conceptualizing the role of setbacks in therapy and understanding that therapy is a complex individualized process, rather than a linear one.
Let’s Talk About Popularity
Popularity is about so much more than fitting in. Why do kids care about it so much and how can parents support confidence and belonging on the tough days?
Dear EKC: My Kid's Having a Hard Time Adjusting to the Move
Struggling to fit in after a move is extremely common. This week’s Dear EKC reader is worried that their teen isn’t adapting. EKC therapist Karolina responds
Dear EKC: Is It Normal To Be So Anxious Around People?
Social anxiety doesn’t always look like staying home. This week’s Dear EKC reader feels like she’s forcing herself out. Therapist Inka Homanen has advice
How do I know my child is stressed? Does the body send alarm signals?
Explore how the body often signals stress even when we are not aware of it, and how Functional Behavioural Analysis can help us understand where stress is coming from
Dear EKC: Is it Weird That My Kid Prefers the Therapy Dog to the Therapist?
Some kids don’t start by talking to the therapist, but to the therapy dog! And that might be exactly what they need to start off right. Kate Berger explains
Safe Spaces, Clear Communication: Building a Neurodivergent Home
Building a home to support neurodivergent kids (and adults!) can feel like a challenge. Luckily, there are some easy steps you can take to build a foundation.
Dear EKC: Why Do I Feel So Uncomfortable In My Body?
Body image isn’t easy: it’s shaped by culture and what we see online every day. This week’s Dear EKC teen asks how to feel more comfortable in their body.
How Can We Use Art Therapy to Foster Emotional Regulation and Expression in TCK’s and Individuals with Autism?
Explore why art therapy is helpful in emotional expression and regulation in TCK’s and autistic individuals through the use of a universal language
Dear EKC: Why Do I Feel Like I'm On The Outside Looking In?
This week’s Dear EKC reader is feeling like they’re somehow on the outside looking in after a move, no matter what they try. Inka Homanen has some advice.
EKC Roundtable: Helping Kids Manage Anger in a New Environment
Kids are in new environments way more often than we give them credit for and it can be overwhelming. Let’s talk about how to manage child anger responses.
Dear EKC: It Feels Hard Keeping Healthy Habits
Keeping healthy habits sometimes feels harder than you think it should. This week’s Dear EKC talks about finding self-compassion as you get back on track.
Dear EKC: Why Is It Important That You're TCK-Sensitive?
This week’s Dear EKC dad is looking for therapy for his TCK after teachers raised some concerns. How important is cultural context for finding support?